For many years, I struggled in a difficult marriage. My focus and my prayers went something like this: God, “Please fix my husband and fix my marriage”, because I believed that would fix my life. You see, I thought I would be happy “if only” I had a conflict-free relationship and a good marriage. So,
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Secrets Christians Never Share
As a counselor and teacher for over 20 years, people have told me some of their greatest secrets. Here are just a few of them. “I want people to go to Heaven, but I don’t want them to become a Christian and wind up feeling miserable like me!” This confession was whispered by a
Christians Don’t Need to Try Harder
Too many Christians falsely believe if you just give them a checklist of things to do, they will be able to go home and work on the list. The idea is, “If I work on my list hard enough, long enough, and pray about it, I can change.” This thinking has two major fallacies. First,
