If you’re looking to improve your marriage, know that Jesus loves you and your spouse and wants you to experience a happy and loving relationship. However, it can be challenging to assess the root of any issues in your relationship. At GLI, we have 28 years of experience in marriage counseling, and our approach is unique. We work together with God to uncover the underlying problems that may be wreaking havoc on your marriage. Think of it like an iceberg; often, the issues we can see on the surface are just the tip of the iceberg. By identifying and removing the root cause of your problems, we can help you build a stronger, happier relationship in Christ. Don’t hesitate to reach out to us today at 704-522-9026 for a consultation. We’ve seen God work wonders and save marriages that were struggling, creating newfound happiness for couples.
Take the following assessment to see if GLI’s marriage counseling might be needed for you.
1. As a couple, we have a strong emotional bond that connects us.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
2. We have learned to handle conflicts in a healthy, godly manner.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
3. Our physical intimacy is fulfilling and includes both spontaneous affection and sex.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
4. We both feel love and respect for each other.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
5. We have good communication, listening attentively to each other and feeling heard.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
6. We can solve problems together without repeatedly cycling back to the same issues.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
7. The thought of leaving or divorcing my spouse never crosses my mind.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
8. We do not feel as though there is a wall between us.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
9. Our financial disagreements are rare.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
10. We enjoy being in each other’s presence, whether at home or out on dates.
(a) Always (b) Usually (c) Sometimes (d) Rarely (e) Never
Here’s how to grade your marriage. 1 point for each (a), 2 points for each (b), 3 points for each (c), 4 points for each (d), and 5 points for each (e).
Scores:
- 20-30 points: You have a good marriage but may want to get counseling to enrich your relationship.
- 10-19 points: Your marriage is average and counseling is needed to move you forward.
- 0-9 points: Your marriage is painful and you both need to seek marriage help immediately.
We care about you, and so does Jesus. Call or text us today at 704-522-9026 for a consultation. If you know of someone else who needs help, please share this blog with them or simply ask them to contact us.
