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If We Don’t Forgive, Will God Forgive Us?

One of the biggies that strikes fear and anxiety in many is this question,  “If I don’t forgive, will God forgive me?”  It’s a valid question because if the answer

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: Anxiety, complete forgiveness, condemnation, Curses, depression, Emotional pain, Forgiving people, Freedom in Christ, Grace Covenant, New Covenant, New Testament, Old Covenant, The New Covenant

Releasing Your Regrets

Do you have any regrets?  Any transparent person would confess they do.  The million dollar question is this.  Do you have regrets or do your regrets have you?  In other

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: complete forgiveness, condemnation, emotional healing, Emotional pain, Regret, Shame

The “I’ve Always Felt This Way” Deception

  Growing up, I wrestled with feeling inadequate. Even though I achieved a lot as a teenager and young man, I was convinced that I was “Mark, the Inadequate.” For

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: Christian Happiness, Concept of God, condemnation, Depressed Christians, emotional healing, Emotional pain

Christian Myth #4 – God Punishes Us

    The majority of Christians wrongly believe that God punishes them when they mess up. So, when bad things happen to them, they default to thinking, “I must have

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: Concept of God, condemnation, confusion about the gospels

Christian Myth #3 – Christians Must Keep the 10 Commandments

  Are Christians supposed to obey the 10 Commandments? Is our daily life supposed to be filled with pressure to follow certain rules? For example, imagine waking up every day

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: acceptance, Concept of God, condemnation

Are You a Minister of the Old or New Covenant?

For most of the first 10 years I was a pastor, I was a mixed up minister who mixed up a lot of Christians by preaching a mixture of the Old Covenant (OC) and New Covenant (NC).  By doing this, I unwittingly watered down both the purpose of the (OC) and the power of the (NC).  


It was my own preaching like this that eventually brought me to brokenness.  That would be a great title for a book, wouldn’t it?  “Pastor’s Own Preaching Breaks Him”!  In that brokenness, God began to give me understanding about the liberating difference in the two Covenants.   I didn’t know at the time that this was not only going to free me but many others in the years to come.


Let’s look at according to 2 Corinthians 3:5-11 and then check ourselves to which one we are telling people.


5 Not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, 6 who also made us adequate as servants of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life. 7 But if the ministry of death, in letters engraved on stones, came [c]with glory, so that the sons of Israel could not look intently at the face of Moses because of the glory of his face, fading as it was, 8 how will the ministry of the Spirit fail to be even more with glory? 9 For if the ministry of condemnation has glory, much more does the ministry of righteousness abound in glory. 10 For indeed what had glory, in this case has no glory because of the glory that surpasses it. 11 For if that which fades away was with glory, much more that which remains is in glory.


The ministry of the (OC) is a ministry of death.  The purpose of the (OC) or law is to show an unbeliever how sinful they are.  They are sinful because their old nature is spiritually dead.  See Romans 3:19-20; Romans 5:20; Galatians 5:23; Ephesians 2:1-3


The ministry of the (NC) is a ministry of the Spirit.The law cannot give life but the gift of the Holy Spirit causes a person to come alive spiritually under the (NC).  Forgiveness is great but dead people need life!  Galatians 3:21; Romans 8:2


The ministry of the (OC) is a ministry of condemnation.   The ministry of the (OC) is to reveal to an unbeliever that because of their sins, they are condemned and therefore unacceptable to God.  Romans 3:19-20; 5:20; Galatians 3:21


The ministry of the (NC) is a ministry of righteousness.  The ministry of the (NC) reveals to Christians that they are 100% acceptable to God because they are the righteousness of God in Christ. Romans 5:1, 17, 19; 2 Corinthians 5:21


The ministry of the (OC) has come to an end.  Once a person comes to faith in Christ, their relationship with the (OC), meaning the law, ends and is replaced by the (NC).  Romans 7:1-7; Galatians 3:19, 25


The ministry of the (NC) is permanent.  As Christians, our identity in Christ and Christ in us has permanently replaced the (OC).  Ephesians 1:13-14; Hebrews 10:16-17


If you are discovering that you are like I once was, in that you mix together the two Covenants, let go of the Old Covenant unless you are talking to an unbeliever.  It’s not for Christians!  Embrace and live in the freedom of being a New Covenant person!  Minister to people this awesome New Covenant which God has provided for us in Christ!


Believe it!  It’s the Gospel!


Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2014 Mark Maulding

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: condemnation, Death, Grace Covenant, Holy Spirit, Law and Grace, Law Covenant, Life, New Covenant, Old Covenant

Are You a Minister of the Old or New Covenant?

For most of the first 10 years I was a pastor, I was a mixed up minister who mixed up a lot of Christians by preaching a mixture of the Old Covenant (OC) and New Covenant (NC).  By doing this, I unwittingly watered down both the purpose of the (OC) and the power of the (NC).  


It was my own preaching like this that eventually brought me to brokenness.  That would be a great title for a book, wouldn’t it?  “Pastor’s Own Preaching Breaks Him”!  In that brokenness, God began to give me understanding about the liberating difference in the two Covenants.   I didn’t know at the time that this was not only going to free me but many others in the years to come.


Let’s look at according to 2 Corinthians 3:5-11 and then check ourselves to which one we are telling people.


5 Not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, 6 who also made us adequate as servants of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life. 7 But if the ministry of death, in letters engraved on stones, came [c]with glory, so that the sons of Israel could not look intently at the face of Moses because of the glory of his face, fading as it was, 8 how will the ministry of the Spirit fail to be even more with glory? 9 For if the ministry of condemnation has glory, much more does the ministry of righteousness abound in glory. 10 For indeed what had glory, in this case has no glory because of the glory that surpasses it. 11 For if that which fades away was with glory, much more that which remains is in glory.


The ministry of the (OC) is a ministry of death.  The purpose of the (OC) or law is to show an unbeliever how sinful they are.  They are sinful because their old nature is spiritually dead.  See Romans 3:19-20; Romans 5:20; Galatians 5:23; Ephesians 2:1-3


The ministry of the (NC) is a ministry of the Spirit.The law cannot give life but the gift of the Holy Spirit causes a person to come alive spiritually under the (NC).  Forgiveness is great but dead people need life!  Galatians 3:21; Romans 8:2


The ministry of the (OC) is a ministry of condemnation.   The ministry of the (OC) is to reveal to an unbeliever that because of their sins, they are condemned and therefore unacceptable to God.  Romans 3:19-20; 5:20; Galatians 3:21


The ministry of the (NC) is a ministry of righteousness.  The ministry of the (NC) reveals to Christians that they are 100% acceptable to God because they are the righteousness of God in Christ. Romans 5:1, 17, 19; 2 Corinthians 5:21


The ministry of the (OC) has come to an end.  Once a person comes to faith in Christ, their relationship with the (OC), meaning the law, ends and is replaced by the (NC).  Romans 7:1-7; Galatians 3:19, 25


The ministry of the (NC) is permanent.  As Christians, our identity in Christ and Christ in us has permanently replaced the (OC).  Ephesians 1:13-14; Hebrews 10:16-17


If you are discovering that you are like I once was, in that you mix together the two Covenants, let go of the Old Covenant unless you are talking to an unbeliever.  It’s not for Christians!  Embrace and live in the freedom of being a New Covenant person!  Minister to people this awesome New Covenant which God has provided for us in Christ!


Believe it!  It’s the Gospel!


Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2014 Mark Maulding

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: condemnation, Death, Grace Covenant, Holy Spirit, Law and Grace, Law Covenant, Life, New Covenant, Old Covenant

The Freedom of No Condemnation

Not too long ago, my flesh jumped up and down with its dastardly desires.   When it did, my emotions took a nose dive and before I knew it, they were on the floor getting stomped on.   I wasn’t having much fun, to say the least.

That is the way our flesh works.  It jumps up and down inside of us trying to control us and when it does, it makes us feel miserable.   And sometimes, it makes the people around us feel miserable!

 I was crying out to the Lord off and on during this time.  Finally, I said, “Lord, please help me with your life in me.”  After a while the Holy Spirit reminded me of Romans 8:1-2 but He did it in reverse order starting with verse 2.  “The law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and death.”   I rolled that over and over in my mind and as I did, the peace that passes all understanding began to cut through all the negative feelings.

 Let’s think about it together for a minute.  The law of the Spirit is the new law which operates in us in the place of the Old Testament law.  What is that new law?  It is this:  we have the life of Christ Jesus operating inside of us to overcome and free us from another law, the law of sin and death.  The law of sin and death is what we inherited from Adam.  This is not the old nature because it was crucified with Christ.  (Romans 6:6).    It’s sometimes called the power of sin which is an unholy force in me but it is not me.  It’s like having a splinter in your finger.  The splinter is inflicting pain in me but it is not me.  To make it clear, trying harder is not more powerful than this power of sin.  Only the life of Christ in us is more powerful.

Next, the Holy Spirit reminded me of verse one.  “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”   He was saying to me that He knew how much I was being defeated but there was still no condemnation from Him.  He also reminded me that this verse comes after Romans 7:15-24 where the Apostle Paul shares in detail his own story of devastating defeat sin. 

 What freedom!  No matter how much sin defeats us, there is no condemnation! It took a while for my emotions to come up from the floor.  The reason is that our emotions follow our thoughts much like a train caboose follows the engine.  Your emotions may take some time to line up with the truth of the Gospel as well.

 Have you ever heard of preaching the Gospel to yourself?  That is what my story is really about.  The Holy Spirit wants all of us to preach the Gospel to ourselves often- the complete Gospel.   This is where our freedom is in Christ. 

Believe it!  It’s the Gospel!

Live Free In Christ, Mark Maulding, President and Founder www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2014 Mark Maulding

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: condemnation, freedom, power of sin

The Freedom of No Condemnation

Not too long ago, my flesh jumped up and down with its dastardly desires.   When it did, my emotions took a nose dive and before I knew it, they were on the floor getting stomped on.   I wasn’t having much fun, to say the least.

That is the way our flesh works.  It jumps up and down inside of us trying to control us and when it does, it makes us feel miserable.   And sometimes, it makes the people around us feel miserable!

 I was crying out to the Lord off and on during this time.  Finally, I said, “Lord, please help me with your life in me.”  After a while the Holy Spirit reminded me of Romans 8:1-2 but He did it in reverse order starting with verse 2.  “The law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and death.”   I rolled that over and over in my mind and as I did, the peace that passes all understanding began to cut through all the negative feelings.

 Let’s think about it together for a minute.  The law of the Spirit is the new law which operates in us in the place of the Old Testament law.  What is that new law?  It is this:  we have the life of Christ Jesus operating inside of us to overcome and free us from another law, the law of sin and death.  The law of sin and death is what we inherited from Adam.  This is not the old nature because it was crucified with Christ.  (Romans 6:6).    It’s sometimes called the power of sin which is an unholy force in me but it is not me.  It’s like having a splinter in your finger.  The splinter is inflicting pain in me but it is not me.  To make it clear, trying harder is not more powerful than this power of sin.  Only the life of Christ in us is more powerful.

Next, the Holy Spirit reminded me of verse one.  “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”   He was saying to me that He knew how much I was being defeated but there was still no condemnation from Him.  He also reminded me that this verse comes after Romans 7:15-24 where the Apostle Paul shares in detail his own story of devastating defeat sin. 

 What freedom!  No matter how much sin defeats us, there is no condemnation! It took a while for my emotions to come up from the floor.  The reason is that our emotions follow our thoughts much like a train caboose follows the engine.  Your emotions may take some time to line up with the truth of the Gospel as well.

 Have you ever heard of preaching the Gospel to yourself?  That is what my story is really about.  The Holy Spirit wants all of us to preach the Gospel to ourselves often- the complete Gospel.   This is where our freedom is in Christ. 

Believe it!  It’s the Gospel!

Live Free In Christ, Mark Maulding, President and Founder www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2014 Mark Maulding

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Written by Mark Maulding · Categorized: condemnation, freedom, power of sin

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